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Proudly supporting R U OK? Day

Are you really OK? We're here to help raise awareness and support for those who may be struggling with their mental health. This September 9, you can do your part by asking a friend, family member or colleague, “R U OK?”

2021 has been another challenging year. Checking in and reaching out to those around us has never been so important. Perhaps it is time to check in with your own mental health?

If you feel like something’s not quite the same with someone you know – take the time to ask them, “Are you really OK?”

RU OK? Day inspires and empowers us all to engage in meaningfully connect with the people around us and start a conversation with someone who may be struggling. You don’t need to be an expert to reach out a friend – just a good friend and a great listener.

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Use the four steps and have a conversation that could change a life:

FOLLOW THE STEPS:

1. ASK R U OK?

  • Be relaxed, friendly and concerned in your approach.
  • Help them open up by asking questions like "How are you going?" or "What’s been happening?"
  • Mention specific things that have made you concerned for them, like "You seem less chatty than usual. How are you going?"

2. LISTEN WITH AN OPEN MIND

  • Take what they say seriously and don't interrupt or rush the conversation.
  • Don’t judge their experiences or reactions but acknowledge that things seem tough for them.
  • If they need time to think, sit patiently with the silence.
  • Encourage them to explain: "How are you feeling about that?" or "How long have you felt that way?"
  • Show that you've listened by repeating back what you’ve heard (in your own words) and ask if you have understood them properly.

3. ENCOURAGE ACTION

  • Ask: “What have you done in the past to manage similar situations?”
  • Ask: “How would you like me to support you?"
  • Ask: “What’s something you can do for yourself right now? Something that’s enjoyable or relaxing?”
  • You could say: "When I was going through a difficult time, I tried this... You might find it useful too."
  • If they've been feeling really down for more than 2 weeks, encourage them to see a health professional. You could say, "It might be useful to link in with someone who can support you. I'm happy to assist you to find the right person to talk to.”

4. CHECK IN

  • Pop a reminder in your diary to call them in a couple of weeks. If they're really struggling, follow up with them sooner.
  • You could say: "I've been thinking of you and wanted to know how you've been going since we last chatted."
  • Ask if they've found a better way to manage the situation. If they haven't done anything, don't judge them. They might just need someone to listen to them for the moment.
  • Stay in touch and be there for them. Genuine care and concern can make a real difference.

If you or someone you know is struggling with their mental health, we're here for you.

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